Santa Clara Meditation Relationships – Does true love exist?

Hello. I’m glad that I can share the answer to this beautiful question. I would like to answer this question based on what I had enlightened through my meditation practice:)

Before talking about true love, I want to ask you what is the meaning of the word “True”?

True refers to Truth, and it is an entity that is never changing, everlasting, and alive. When one’s mind becomes true, we can love somebody truly.

But in our individual minds, it’s impossible to have true love because our human minds are always changing.

  • For example, when we meet the person we love, we usually say, “Meeting you is the great luck of my life.” but when our minds are flipped oppositely, we might say, “Meeting you is a huge mistake in my life.”
  • Our individual minds are easy to change. Because in the individual mind, there are so many minds like one’s own fixed ideas and standards, good or bad, right or wrong, comparison, hatred, anger, and jealousy.

True love is possible only when one is absent from an individual mind. Only the one who discards one’s individual mind and becomes the great universe mind, which is true, can love someone unconditionally🌿.

Before, my mind was always busy because of my constant judgments on others, and I couldn’t accept them as they are. But through meditation, I could find the reason why I couldn’t accept people as they are. And also, I found a way to discard those minds. I discarded my fixed ideas and my standards, which I have created throughout life.

As much as I discarded my mind,

  1. could accept people as they are, not by my standards.
  2. I could find the original mind, which is a calm true mind. we are supposed to have an original mind, but it has been hidden because of the individual human mind. This individual mind is the mind that we have accumulated throughout our whole life.
  3. Finally, I became relaxed and happy after I uncover the true mind.
  4. I could be more grateful to people around me than either complaining or judging them.

Anyone can achieve this because our true mind is already within us✨. To live with this true mind, we should discard our false individual mind first because this human mind changes all the time. Now there is the way to live as true with the proper meditation method that anyone can follow. I’ll attach a short video that helps you furthermore. Thank you for reading this. Good luck.😀

by Ellen P.